Hi, I’m KARA!
When my son was born, I poured everything into being the best mother I could be. To be a “good” partner and homemaker. And in it, I lost myself. I was never told that I could be a sexual being and a good mom. I had to choose between the nurturing caretaker and put aside my needs, wants, and desires because everyone else was more important.
Shortly after my son was born, my dad was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer and while he went into remission for some time, we lost him a year later. Juggling grief, new motherhood, a dwindling partnership, and a full time job, I became a shell of just doing. All the energy I had went to my son and everything else was done just to get by. My relationship with my son’s dad was the next casuality of that time.
Being a new mom, newly single, in a new body I didn’t recognize nor love, I knew I needed something different. I missed myself. So I slowly started my journey back. I gave myself permission to feel, to play, and to explore. To touch and be touched and found my way back to pleasure again.
And since then I’ve spent countless hours learning to understand and expand my own personal connection to self in the most intimate physical, mental, and emotional way. While still searching for my divine love partner, my own pleasure has become my passion and sharing the knowledge I’ve gathered on my own journey of embracing a more sacred sexuality has become my heart’s true calling.
As a single mom in the midst of the transition we call midlife, learning to love and care for my body in new ways, I understand how life is a balancing act and taking time for ourselves can feel overwhelming and impossible.
I’m here to support you in finding more than enough room for your mind, body, and soul to be filled with gooey pleasure.
I chose this work because I believe every person with a pussy deserves pleasure and a deeply fulfilling and orgasmic sex life.
I’ve always been incredibly fascinated by all things sex and have been a long time admirer of many inspiring women already in the field, both in teaching and in service. I couldn’t be more proud to now be working alongside them.
I’m an artist to my core, my first love being photography (art school drop out), but I also have a special place in my heart for pole dancing, poetry, music, a bit of kink, and sex magic. I’m very passionate about all things of the ocean and conservation, rights for sex workers and our LGBTQ community, flower gardens, and mushy love stories.
Credentials
Vita™ BY layla martin / 2023
Trauma informed Sex & Love coaching Certification
the science of pleasure / 2024
Health informed sex expert certification
certified sexologist on the american board of sexology - #25582
dance & Movement arts
13+ years training in erotic movement
200 Hour Tantric yoga Teacher training / 2023